How I helped my daughter learn
I am NOT the author. I am simply sharing this lovely story with all of you because I have not seen it on here.
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I had noticed that over the last few days that my daughter Susan had not been her normal self. She seemed withdrawn and distant. Therefore I wasn’t too surprised when she came into the lounge that Saturday night and wearing her night shirt, sat on the couch beside me and said “Mom can I ask you something?”
I had just been sort of curled up wearing just my bath robe and relaxing but I’ve always got the time for my daughter if she upset or worried.
“Sure Angel” I said “What’s the matter?”
She sighed and then started to speak but stopped. She did this a couple of times finally saying “Please Mom don’t be mad with me.”
I shook my head “Why should I be mad with you?” I asked. Sue shrugged “I don’t know I just think you might be.”
I leant into her and put my arm round her and cuddled her. “C’mon sweaty, out with it”. I stroked her long blonde hair away from her face and looked at her.
“Well mom I think I might be gay” She looked at me for a response.
“And?” I said “Where’s the problem in that sweetheart. You know I’d not have any problem with that.”
“Well yes, I guess so but…” She stopped.
“But what?” I asked.
“Well” she started “I’m really not sure if I am or not.”
I shrugged “Maybe you’re bisexual angel. If you like guys and are attracted to women too, then I’d say you’re bisexual.” I smiled and added “The best of both worlds” I smiled.
She smiled back.
“Thanks mom but I just feel confused. It’s because Becky made a pass at me last weekend at her house.”
I nodded. “Oh yes I remember when that happened to me many years ago. I got real confused. Made me feel I was bizarre in some way”
Sue brightened up “Yes Mom. That’s it exactly. I always thought that it was other people that it happened to but not me.”
“Oh no” I said “like I say it happened to me and I learned to enjoy it.”
Susan sat upright, her eyes wide “You learned to enjoy it? Mom, I never knew you were bisexual once.”
I laughed “More than once! I still am bisexual. My best friend Rita, well she’s more than just a drinking buddy!”
Sue just said “Wow! I never guessed”
“And why should you have? We’re perfectly normal people. No extra head or anything. We’re just a couple of 40 something moms without a man in their life who enjoy being physical with each other.”
Susan was really amazed by my revelation but it had obviously set her mind at rest a great deal.
“So it’s ok to want to hold another woman’s body and touch her and kiss her then?” she asked.
“Well it is as far as I am concerned” I replied and added “Did you enjoy your time with Becky?”
Sue blushed. “Well all we did was kissing although she did squeeze my breast a bit. I so wanted her to do more but I think I was frightened because she would know it was my first time.”
I gave my daughter a hug. “Yes I can remember those feelings. Did you want to touch her too?”
“Oh yes” Sue replied “Very, very much. I wanted to squeeze her breasts and I really wanted to suck on her nipples and have her suck on mine.
I am NOT the author. I am simply sharing this lovely story with all of you because I have not seen it on here.
Now this story goes here as:
I had noticed that over the last few days that my daughter Susan had not been her normal self. She seemed withdrawn and distant. Therefore I wasn’t too surprised when she came into the lounge that Saturday night and wearing her night shirt, sat on the couch beside me and said “Mom can I ask you something?”
I had just been sort of curled up wearing just my bath robe and relaxing but I’ve always got the time for my daughter if she upset or worried.
“Sure Angel” I said “What’s the matter?”
She sighed and then started to speak but stopped. She did this a couple of times finally saying “Please Mom don’t be mad with me.”
I shook my head “Why should I be mad with you?” I asked. Sue shrugged “I don’t know I just think you might be.”
I leant into her and put my arm round her and cuddled her. “C’mon sweaty, out with it”. I stroked her long blonde hair away from her face and looked at her.
“Well mom I think I might be gay” She looked at me for a response.
“And?” I said “Where’s the problem in that sweetheart. You know I’d not have any problem with that.”
“Well yes, I guess so but…” She stopped.
“But what?” I asked.
“Well” she started “I’m really not sure if I am or not.”
I shrugged “Maybe you’re bisexual angel. If you like guys and are attracted to women too, then I’d say you’re bisexual.” I smiled and added “The best of both worlds” I smiled.
She smiled back.
“Thanks mom but I just feel confused. It’s because Becky made a pass at me last weekend at her house.”
I nodded. “Oh yes I remember when that happened to me many years ago. I got real confused. Made me feel I was bizarre in some way”
Sue brightened up “Yes Mom. That’s it exactly. I always thought that it was other people that it happened to but not me.”
“Oh no” I said “like I say it happened to me and I learned to enjoy it.”
Susan sat upright, her eyes wide “You learned to enjoy it? Mom, I never knew you were bisexual once.”
I laughed “More than once! I still am bisexual. My best friend Rita, well she’s more than just a drinking buddy!”
Sue just said “Wow! I never guessed”
“And why should you have? We’re perfectly normal people. No extra head or anything. We’re just a couple of 40 something moms without a man in their life who enjoy being physical with each other.”
Susan was really amazed by my revelation but it had obviously set her mind at rest a great deal.
“So it’s ok to want to hold another woman’s body and touch her and kiss her then?” she asked.
“Well it is as far as I am concerned” I replied and added “Did you enjoy your time with Becky?”
Sue blushed. “Well all we did was kissing although she did squeeze my breast a bit. I so wanted her to do more but I think I was frightened because she would know it was my first time.”
I gave my daughter a hug. “Yes I can remember those feelings. Did you want to touch her too?”
“Oh yes” Sue replied “Very, very much. I wanted to squeeze her breasts and I really wanted to suck on her nipples and have her suck on mine.